If you're asking any questions to guests in their online RSVPs, you can find their answers on your Events page. On every event listed, you can click on the "Track RSVPs" link that takes you to a breakdown of all the info you need.
If you want to edit these questions (including meal options) for any of your events, you can do it from your website:
- Go to "Website"
- Click on the "RSVP" page
- Click on the little pencil icon next to any of your events, and edit the text in the question
After you edit the question, anyone who RSVPs will see your newly edited version (and the same goes for meal options).